学习啦 芷婷 2016-10-20 17:16:13
there is a saying goes，“life without a friend is a life without a sun”，that isto say，friendship is indispensable to peoples life.
friendship is to our life what salt is to dasher. when you are happy friendship is just like adding flowers on the brocade; when you are sad friendship is a dose of consolation; if you are in trouble friends will surround you and remove the barriers for you; if you have a hard nut to crack you can turn to friends for help.
every one need friends and if you fail to make friends you should examine yourself and see if there is something wrong with your personality. maybe you have social faults such snobbishness talkativeness and using slang etc. all of that will drive your new acquaintances. whatever your social faults may be look at them honestly and make real effort to correct them.
however what’s actual difficult is that friendship is easier made than kept.there are several important elements necessary to maintain a good friendship.
listen .the ability to really listen to another is a cornerstone of good friendship.it helps you to understand your friend and his/her feelingsas well as shows that you really care.
spend quality time with your friend .no relationship can be satisfying without quality time spend together.make time for your friendschedule get together.
in short when we have established friendship we ought to cherish and treasure it by means of words and deeds. only thus can we develop real friendship and keep the sacred lamp of friendship burning all our life.
helloeveryone. good afternoon. thank you for giving me this opportunity to talk about my top concern. i'm no.26 i'll talk about friend.
everyone of usrich or poorshould at least have one or two good friends. my friend will listen to me when i want to speak will help me when i needwill take care of me when i am sickand my friends will go together with me side by side through this journey of life.
when i was ten i was suddenly confronted with the anguish of transferring to other school. i had to left my friends i had ever known. as a kidi feel lonely when i study in a new environment without a person i had known. nobody i could talknobody could know when i feel lonely. the time when i couldn't sleep i'll always miss them then the tears filled my eyes.
later i became familar with the environment and made some friends which became my best friends then. they talked with me when i felt lonely they helped me when i needed they took care of me when i was sick. even through we were part we still keep in touch with each other.
in our whole liveswe'll meet too much people but only a few can be our best friends. when staying with themwe can release ourself completely. we can do whatever we want we can laugh together talk together and even cry together. i should say that being together with our best friends is the most wonderful moment of our lives.
but in this fast-developing modern society the reality is not that. more and more people forget to enjoy the beauty of friendship.
they work hard in order to gain a higher position in the society and to earn more money for their work. they have few time to share with their friends. with the time goes by they will be far away from each other.
friend is kind of treasure in our lives. it's actually like a bottle of wine the longer it is kept the sweeter it will be. it also likes a cup of hot tea when we are in bed time it will warm our broken hearts.
friendsespecially best friends. it is what we should have in our livesand it can make our lives be colorful go beyond our imagination.
thanks for your listening. this is what i concerned.
What is friendship? It is not food that we eat when we are starved but it can help fill up our empty mind when we feel lonesome. It is not clothes to wear when we are frozen but it is able to keep a stream of warmth welling up our heart. It is not a book that we read but it provides guidance to our life. Friendship is untouchable but it exists and touches people’s heart. It is something wonderful.
Friendship is about solicitude. When we get ill in bed our friends will put aside what they are doing and come immediately to us. They will sit by our bed so that they can get what we need at the moment promptly.
Friendship is about encouragement. When we fail and find ourselves hopeless and helplessfriends will be there accompanying us bracing us up and seeing it through with us.
Friendship is about consolation. When we weep in grief our friends will be around us hearkening to our bitter experience and trying their level best to make us feel better.
Nevertheless it is superficial to perceive friendship as gaining benefits from others. Friendship is more than that. We can’t merely receive. We ought to repay as well because friendship is reciprocal.
Friendship is about tolerance. We can’t expect our friends to be flawless because no one is perfect. We should be magnanimous enough to accept some of their shortcomings which they endeavor hard but fail to get rid of.
Friendship is about forgiveness. They shouldn’t be considered as bad friends even if they do something wrong to us. We are supposed to listen calmly and even-temperedly to their words as well as accept their sincere apology. A trifle is not supposed to injure a great friendship.
Friendship is about constant attention. Long time of neglect will upset our friends. If we let nature take its course without taking any action friendship will eventually wither like a flower which has been left without caring for too much time.
Now it won’t be so hard to realize that friendship is not as easy as it may seem. It is like the reservoir which will dry up if one doesn’t constantly pipe water into it. It is like the glass which is fragile and needs careful attention. It is sometimes difficult to handle.
To conclude friendship is a mutual spiritual assist. We get supported and helped while at the same time support and help our friends.